Day In, Day Out

Going to schools is like going to mosques (or churches or temples or so forth) You have to wear appropriate clothes to uphold the sanctity of the place, You have to treat teachers with courtesy in the exact way you respect an Imam because of the differences in knowledge and age. You can argue, you can ask, that's what people do, But don't ever go beyond the limit.

In Sweden many children attend pre-schools, but, at least until now, the training of literacy skills has been put off until the age of seven. However, the adult literacy rate in Sweden is the highest in the world. Amazing isn't it?

Vanuatu A place where education is not compulsory.

;) I have this disease. A serious one. I prefer to log into his Facebook instead of mine. ;) He always lets his chatbox on and I really dont mind.  Today is one of the best day, at least it manages to make me laugh all day long. Pity her. Sobsobsob. For girls outside, dont try to initiate any conversation with someone's. Dont try to be funny only to make him feels that you are an outgoing or a happy-go-lucky chick. Because maybe, you are not chatting or smsing with him but perhaps, his girlfriend. I tell you this secret, I always reply shitty texts from chicks when I am out with my bf. Oh, sometimes I did gave opinions on your mms you'd sent.   Dont let people laugh at you dear. 

2010 will come to its end. It leaves me with piles of pain and frustration but it might be better than 2009. Try to regain from a lost was hard but to pretend like nothing had happened was harder but alhamdullilah we manage it.  Despite the hardship and pain, I cherish 2010 for the man that I have. For the joy and the happiness he brings with him. Fighting and cursing are another thing that put some spices into a relationship. However, love isn't like fairy tales where they always cheat you about happy ending by saying, 'and they live happily ever after'. Reality never be something like that. There's nothing special about 2011. Still struggling for my own education and that's it. Nothing more. Not getting engaged or married to someone either. I dream of making life simpler as I always mention to friends of mine, 'life is simple why make it complicated?'. Maybe  I should start reminding myself about that fact. I'll learn to take easy on everything and b...

Log in Facebook. Eyh, da tunang. Wow, nikah? Serius da ada anak! Gila. Belek gambar lamalama, Masa ni kakakkakak ni bujang lagi.  Sekarang, ini da mengandung, itu da beranak. Gila. Kejapnya dunia.

Thanks God for what you have had and for what you have not For the best of the world comes when you least expected. Counting days for three years back incident. If I could tell the world, how it feels. He says something like, 'I dont intend to fall for you. But I do.' And same goes to me. Even it's going to be three years, It seems to me as if it was yesterday, When I first saw you, With that short and that smile you'd put on. I know I've been telling you the same thing all years round, But really, You are so wonderful. I love you to pieces. Yes, I do.

Doludolu zaman sekolah rendah, Kita bukan main suka hati, Pergi sekolah baju putih, Balik sekolah dah jadi warna hitam. Mak: Baju ni kenapa? Anak: Tu kena lecak. Tu tumpah mee goreng. Tu plak ice cream tadi. Bila mak bising, marahmarah baju kotor, Kita selamba je cakap, 'Ala. basuh je la. Bukan susah pun. Taknak pakai tangan campak dalam mesin. Taknak campak jugak, beli je baru.' Suka hati je kan? Bila dah besar, Bila dah duduk sendiri, Bila baju kena sental sendiri, Bila duit kerajaan bagi, Barulah tahu betapa seksanya nak hilangkan kotoran kat baju. Kepada mak: Saya mintak maap. 21 tahun hidup, baru harini tahu seksa sental baju. Kepada diri sendiri: Padan muka. Mak takda, duit takda, dobi takda, sental sendiri. Taubat taknak naik beskal waktu hujan da. ;(

3 kilos more and byebye underweight! ;)

I'm crazy about you ;) Marit Larsen and Pakcik Cacat. Uhuk

Based on Wikipedia, carrot and stick is an idiom refers to policy of offering a combination of reward and punishment to decrease students' behavioural problems. Okay, rewards in educational context may consist of praise, stickers, giving presents and so on while punishment may be corporal punishment, being scolded or sent out of the class and so forth. But the problem here is the idiom, 'carrot and stick'. Alfie Kohn argues that the behaviourists (people who support reward and punishment) are treating people like pets. ...we talk casually about the use of "carrots and sticks" and there is food for thought here, too. Before these words came to be used as generic representations of bribes and threats, what actually stood between carrot and the stick was, of course, a jackass. (Kohn, 1993, p.25). So, is there any connection between human treating human and human treating pets? Is it true?

Day 10: One confession. I cannot live without books. *skema tapi benar*

Day 9: Two words that describe your life right now. Thanks Allah ;)

Day 8: Three turn ons. Duit. *sapa taksuka dapat duit?* Sihat tubuh badan. Fizikal Mental dan Rohani. Dating. Yeay! *gedik*

Day 7: Four turn offs. Failure. Criticisms. Losing things which I love. Period cramp.

Syukur for what He gives me. Even I feel dissatisfy or displease, I push myself to believe, that everything happens for reasons. Well, I was upside down today. Feeling like flying back to Malaysia and do completely nothing. However, tearing myself apart wont make any better. I have to stand back and fight for things I've lost. For I still remember a poem I learn in high school, The best thing about today is I receive a parcel again from Malaysia, this time from my HyunKi. Last week my parents sent me books and some junk foods. Okay, I've a big plastic bag of Super Ring and Keropok Durian *sebesar yang kat kedai kot ;)*. So I get my surprises and they really surprise me. All this time, I know, you never forget every little thing I'd said. Every nonsense that I speak. You are so sweet. Just the way you are ;). We talked about it years ago, still you can remember about it. How can I fall for someone else? ;) There was a time where I didnt believe in love. I really though...

Day 6: Five people who mean a lot to you. Sebab ramai sangat, I'll divide it into groups ;) Mereka yang memperkenalkan dunia kepada saya. Mereka yang sangatsangat menghargai dan sayang saya. Mereka yang takpernah mahu kisah tentang saya walaupun asal saya dr mereka. Mereka yang herdik caci maki hamun saya. Dan semua manusia yang mengajar saya tentang kehidupan. Terima Kasih. Saya hargai kewujudan anda.

Day 5: Six things you wish you could change or wish you would have never done. I wish I could have spent more time playing and wondering around when I was in high schools. *Best moments I've ever had are those time spent with my best friends. I miss you guys.*   So if we get big jobs and we make the big money, when we look back now, will our jokes still be funny? Had never fallen in love with wrong persons. It sucks. You've struggled a lot only to mend your broken heart and then you meet someone new who've made you feel worst than ever. So what's the point of falling in love with these unbearable chaps? *Menyampah! Those days when you're so innocent people make jokes on you. Laughing at you saying those immature statements to you. But now when everything is much better, sorryla babe tak rugilah takda jantan macam lu!* I wanna go back to 2005 and change something that had changed my entire life. *how could this shit happens when I least expected* I wanna go back ...

Buku ni best. Seriously but to apply all the suggested ideas are quite impossible. Huh. Penat ok. Had once tried one of the strategies on my kesayangan but still end up failing. ;). Belum cukup pro.  Some interesting sentences from this book: We're products of our past. We speak to our students the way our parents and teachers spoke to us. The sad truth is that in today's world, kids are being subjected to unprecedented stress and neglect.If we're to have any hope of helping them master their academic skills, we have to help them unpack some of the emotional baggage they carry into our classrooms. That means our role as teacher has to be change to include many elements of parenting. Our role as educators is not to supply "right" answer but to help children arrive at answers through their own thinking process. As teachers our goal is greater than just passing on facts and information,   If we want our students to be caring human beings, then we need to respon...

Day 4: Seven things that cross your mind a lot. Hidup selepas mati. Lists of assignments. Family's condition. Future expectation. Him. Time. This one sentence, 'What goes around, comes around'

Day 3: Eight things you couldn't live without. A bag A book A pen A phone A camera A laptop A sunblock A compact powder Ayu kot ;)

Ok saya sangat obsess dengan ideologies John Holt. The feeling of reading this book is like watching a horror movie. It really is okeh. Is school that bad for children? To a very great degree, school is a place where children learn to be stupid (p.263) We encourage children to act stupidly, not only by scaring and confusing them, but by boring them, by filling up their days with dull, repetitive tasks that make little or no claim on their attention or demands on their intelligence. (p.276) Nobody starts off stupid. You have only to watch babies and infants, and think seriously about what all of them learn and do, to see that, except for the most grossly retarded, they show a style of life, and a desire and ability to learn, that in an older person we might well call genius. Hardly an adult in a thousand or ten thousand could in any three years of his life learn as much, grow as much in his understanding of the world around him, as every infant learns and grows in his first three ...

A Story of Four Girls and an DSLR ;)  Thank You.  Let the pictures do the talking ;)

Day 2: Nine things about yourself that most people don't know. Spoiled daughter. Teregganurian. ;). Bukan Sabah, bukan Negeri Sembilan. Penyepah. I read a lot of motivational books. :). Especially when I was in form 2 and 3. Dua pingat MSSD dlm High Jump. Satu dalam Lompat Kijang. I know I can jump well ;). Tapi itu dulu. Never learn to except criticism.  Can stitch, can sew. I inherited mom's skills. ;) Have been thinking of applying business management for second degree. Ops. Still sleep with a teddy. I'd asked mom and dad to post it all the way from Malaysia to UK. Well, back to fact number 1. :)

Tak ada rupa demam. Selamat Bersalji ;)

It's snowing outside. But I really have to get rid with that beautiful flakes. It may make my condition worst. The best thing is some classes are canceled. Yeay! Since I got nothing to do(as if I've finished all my assignments), I went for blogwalking. For God sake, it's like ages since the last time I become a nosy chap ;). 10 Random Days of Me Blog Challenge: Day 1: Ten things you want to say to ten people right now. Day 2: Nine things about yourself that most people don't know. Day 3: Eight things you couldn't live without. Day 4: Seven things that cross your mind a lot. Day 5: Six things you wish you could change or wish you would have never done. Day 6: Five people who mean a lot to you. Day 7: Four turn offs.   Day 8: Three turn ons. Day 9: Two words that describe your life right now. Day 10: One confession. Day 1: Ten things you want to say to ten people right now. Mom: It's snowing outside. I caught a fever inside. Do you mind making me someth...

Currently reading, 'How Children Fail' by John Holt. Feeling so excited to finish this book and move on to 'How Children Learn'. But my health condition wont let me do so. Sniff Sniff. Some of them are good students, some not so good; but good or not, they dont work to please us, but to please themselves.  They went on daydreaming, no matter how often they got caught and embarrassed doing it, because the class, despite our efforts to make it interesting and safe, was a boring, confusing and dangerous place, from which they would escape if they could - and daydreaming was the only way to escape. A teacher in class is like a man in the woods at night with a powerful flashlight in his hand. Wherever he turns his light, the creatures on whom it shines are aware of it, and do not behave as they do in the dark. Student teachers in training spend long periods of time in one classroom, but they think they are in there to learn How To Teach, to pick up the tricks of child m...